
Episodes

Thursday Mar 13, 2025
She Had “Proof” That Body Count Matters… Until I Asked This.
Thursday Mar 13, 2025
Thursday Mar 13, 2025
She came in convinced that body count matters. "There has to be accountability!" she said, arguing that a high body count is a red flag. She had studies, she had points—but when we really unpacked it, something shifted. By the end of our conversation, she realized that body count mentality is more about insecurity and control than actual compatibility. So… does body count really matter? Or are we just asking the wrong question? Let’s talk about it.

Friday Mar 07, 2025
Why Is It Easier for Men to Set Dating Boundaries?
Friday Mar 07, 2025
Friday Mar 07, 2025
I had an insightful conversation with [guest's name], a guy who’s practicing my No Kissing for 3 Months rule and the Zero-Fight Relationship approach. He shared how he’s been able to set these boundaries without facing pushback from the people around him.
But here’s the interesting part—when women enforce the same boundaries, they often get questioned, criticized, or even pressured to change them. In this video, I unpack why this happens and how it reveals a deeper privilege men have in dating when it comes to setting standards.
I appreciate hearing his perspective, and I also share what this means for women who want to date with intention.
💬 Have you experienced this difference? Let me know in the comments!

Monday Feb 24, 2025
From Stuck to Strong: Live Coaching a Woman in a Toxic Relationship
Monday Feb 24, 2025
Monday Feb 24, 2025
What started as a simple book recommendation request on my TikTok Live turned into a coaching session.
A woman asked for a book suggestion, but when I dug deeper, she revealed she was stuck in a toxic relationship. She felt in too deep to leave, but together, we explored why she was staying, how she could break free, and what steps she could take next.
I shared my top book recommendations, including Fake Love Need Not Apply (a free book) and No More Assholes, to help her identify red flags and build a healthier future if she chooses to date again. And the best part? My online community showed up for her in the comments, offering support and encouragement.
Listen in for valuable insights on leaving toxic relationships, rebuilding self-worth, and choosing better for yourself. If you or someone you know needs this, this episode is for you. 💜

Monday Jan 06, 2025
Monday Jan 06, 2025
Does our biology determine our morality? In this heated debate, Diyo brings science to challenge a woman's belief that nature dictates right and wrong.
We explore how societal constructs influence our views on morality, body count, and gender norms while examining the tension between logic, emotion, and cultural indoctrination

Saturday Dec 28, 2024
The Loneliness Epidemic: Why Men Struggle to Connect (and How to Fix It)
Saturday Dec 28, 2024
Saturday Dec 28, 2024
Discover why so many men today feel disconnected and how it affects their well-being.
Our guest, Beau Pinto, shares observations from talking with countless single men in bars, noting how they seek companionship, face stigma around intimacy, and struggle to form genuine friendships.
Learn how men can build stronger bonds, find confidence in relationships, and overcome loneliness in a culture that often leaves them isolated.

Thursday Dec 26, 2024
Thursday Dec 26, 2024
Diyo returns to the panel to share thoughts on how fear can be used as a control tactic and why exploring different viewpoints matters.
We discuss body count myths, the impact of manifestation, and insights from psychology and anthropology. Diyo also compares human self-awareness with animal behavior, challenging the idea that only humans experience reflective thinking.
Throughout the conversation, he encourages curiosity, questions fear-driven narratives, and highlights the mind’s role in shaping personal growth.

Monday Dec 23, 2024
Monday Dec 23, 2024
In this segment of my Ask Chantal live on TikTok, I’m joined by Therese, Diane, and Diyo (a psychologist expert) to dive into a discussion about the historical roles of women as leaders, hunters, and community builders. We debunk the long-standing myth of male dominance in hunting and leadership, explore how women have always been more than just their bodies or domestic roles, and address modern issues like the fixation on 'body count'—unpacking how it often ties to insecurity and self-esteem.
Tune in for an empowering and insightful conversation!

Thursday Sep 26, 2024
Th Truth About Boredom in Long-term Relationships
Thursday Sep 26, 2024
Thursday Sep 26, 2024
In this episode, I invited Kristen Thomas, a Clinical Sex Therapist and Relationship Coach, to discuss the recent cheating scandal involving David Grohl, the frontman of Foo Fighters, who was considered a faithful husband for 20 years until revelations surfaced about him having a child with another woman.
We dive into the statistics surrounding boredom and cheating in long-term relationships, exploring how men and women experience these issues differently. Christine shares insights on how intimacy plays a crucial role in maintaining a healthy relationship over time and preventing disconnection.
Tune in as we unpack the complexities of infidelity, the dynamics of long-term relationships, and practical ways to keep intimacy alive.

Sunday Sep 15, 2024
How to Stop Falling for Abusers and Stop Dating Out of Fear
Sunday Sep 15, 2024
Sunday Sep 15, 2024
In this episode, I sit down with Veronica Wang, a popular Mukbang YouTuber, to dive into her journey with relationships, fear of intimacy, and how past experiences have shaped her approach to dating.
We explore how kissing and sex can create emotional bonds that sometimes lead to toxic relationships and share strategies on how to protect yourself from falling for the wrong person. Join us as we discuss overcoming fears, setting healthy boundaries, and finding the right partner.

Sunday Sep 08, 2024
Sunday Sep 08, 2024
In this episode, I talk to a couple who grew up in a Christian background and were indoctrinated to believe that exploring their bodies before marriage was wrong.
These beliefs shaped their views on sexuality and impacted their relationship. They also held strong gender role beliefs, which led to further challenges in their partnership. The couple shares their journey of deconstructing these long-held beliefs and how they've rebuilt their relationship, emerging as a stronger, more connected couple today.

Friday Aug 16, 2024
Traditional Views or Logic?
Friday Aug 16, 2024
Friday Aug 16, 2024
In this episode, I chat with a guest who joined my TikTok live and asked if my dating and relationship rules are based on traditional views.
We discuss how these rules are rooted in logic and the importance of taking control of our own actions and choices. Whether you’re navigating the dating scene or in a relationship, this conversation sheds light on why it’s crucial to set standards that are practical and self-empowering rather than relying on outdated norms. Tune in for a fresh perspective on relationships that’s all about self-awareness and logic.

Wednesday Aug 14, 2024
What You Need to Know Before You Start Dating
Wednesday Aug 14, 2024
Wednesday Aug 14, 2024
In this episode, I chatted with a woman who joined me on my TikTok Live and shared her inspiring journey of breaking free from an abusive relationship.
After following my content for a while, she found the strength to leave her toxic ex. Now, she’s ready to take the next steps and wonders how she can prepare herself for a healthy and fulfilling dating experience.
We discuss key insights and actionable tips to help anyone who’s been through a tough breakup get ready to re-enter the dating world with confidence and clarity.

Sunday Aug 11, 2024

Thursday Aug 08, 2024

Wednesday Aug 07, 2024

Saturday Jul 27, 2024
Why You Should NOT Save Yourself for Marriage
Saturday Jul 27, 2024
Saturday Jul 27, 2024
In this short podcast episode, I am joined by a special guest who shared her powerful story during a TikTok live session. She opens up about how she was brainwashed into believing she should preserve her body solely for her future husband, a notion that stripped away her autonomy and self-worth.
Together, we delve into her journey of realization and empowerment as she breaks free from these limiting beliefs and reclaims her body and voice.
Join us for a conversation about autonomy, self-discovery, and the importance of owning your narrative.

Thursday Jul 25, 2024
When Guys Come In To Argue About Women's Autonomy Over Our Bodies
Thursday Jul 25, 2024
Thursday Jul 25, 2024
In this episode, we tackle a recurring and heated topic: the unsolicited opinions of some guys about women's autonomy over our bodies.
Join us as we discuss a recent live session where a male participant insisted that women should be held accountable for their body count. We delve into the underlying issues of control, insecurity, and double standards that fuel such arguments. Our conversation highlights the importance of bodily autonomy, the right to make personal choices without judgment, and the necessity of rejecting outdated, oppressive views.
Tune in to hear empowering responses and insightful discussions on maintaining our self-worth and dignity in the face of criticism.

Friday Jul 12, 2024
Dating Tips for All Genders
Friday Jul 12, 2024
Friday Jul 12, 2024
In this episode, I talk to a member of the LGBTQ+ community who joined my TikTok live to discuss some of my most popular dating strategies. We dive into their curiosity about the "No Kissing for 3 Months" rule, explore the concept of a "No Fight" relationship, and debunk the myth that body count matters. I also share how my dating strategies are designed to be inclusive and effective for all genders. Tune in for an engaging conversation that challenges traditional dating norms and offers fresh perspectives for everyone.

Tuesday Jun 25, 2024
An Entitled Guy Gets Cooked for Arguing Why Body Count Matters.
Tuesday Jun 25, 2024
Tuesday Jun 25, 2024
A guy joined my TikTok live and kept yapping about why body count matters. He tried to change my mind, but I stood firm, explaining how women have autonomy over our own bodies and shouldn't be controlled by societal indoctrination or his insecurities.
Tune in as I challenge his views and advocate for women's empowerment and freedom.
This is a conversation you don't want to miss!

Saturday Jun 22, 2024
Why You Find It Hard To Stick to The Three-Month No Kissing Rule
Saturday Jun 22, 2024
Saturday Jun 22, 2024

Friday Jun 21, 2024

Tuesday Jun 18, 2024
We Don't Find A Long-term Partner The Same Way We Hook Up
Tuesday Jun 18, 2024
Tuesday Jun 18, 2024
I explore a listener's dilemma about whether she should hook up with a guy who seems like he can't keep it in his pants and doesn't align with what she wants long-term.
Join me as I discuss the importance of knowing your desires, assessing the risks, and making informed decisions when faced with such tempting yet complicated situations.

Thursday Jun 13, 2024
Meaningless Exclusivity
Thursday Jun 13, 2024
Thursday Jun 13, 2024
In this podcast episode, I sit down with a man intrigued by the "No Kissing for 3 Months" dating rule but puzzled about the no exclusivity aspect. He expresses concern that by not going exclusive, he might miss out if the woman chooses someone else before he gets a chance. I take this opportunity to clarify the process, emphasizing the importance of not giving exclusivity out of insecurity. We delve into why a thorough vetting period is crucial for building a solid foundation in relationships.
I also recommend he check out my book, "The Perfect Play," the ultimate dating guide for men. Join us for an enlightening discussion that sheds light on mindful dating strategies and the value of patience.

Friday Jun 07, 2024
How Do You Achieve A Zero-fight Relationship?
Friday Jun 07, 2024
Friday Jun 07, 2024
Listen in as we discuss the possibility of a zero-fight relationship in this episode. We explore personal responsibility for thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, drawing insights from my book Fix That Shit. Discover practical strategies for healthier relationships.

Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
How Choosing The Right Partner and Healthy Behaviors Can Facilitate Healing
Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
In this podcast episode, I talk with a man who shares his experience of domestic violence. He discusses using a rage room to manage his anger. We discuss choosing supportive partners and healthy coping mechanisms. I recommended he and his partner grab my book 'Fix That Shit,' which teaches healthy communication tools.

Thursday May 02, 2024
Finding Loyalty and Security in Relationship
Thursday May 02, 2024
Thursday May 02, 2024
This episode features a discussion about the 'no kissing for 3 months' rule and maintaining non-exclusivity during this period to vet potential partners effectively.
The focus is on how these strategies help in assessing loyalty and establishing security in a relationship. For more insightful episodes, subscribe to our podcast

Friday Apr 26, 2024
Don't Start Dating Until You Understand These Things
Friday Apr 26, 2024
Friday Apr 26, 2024
During a TikTok live session, I chat with a guy interested in the journey of self-discovery before entering the dating world.
We explore why it’s essential to understand yourself and know what you want before starting a relationship.
We also discuss why a person's 'body count' shouldn't influence your view of them and the benefits of the 'no kissing for three months' dating rule.
Tune in for a conversation that might reshape your approach to dating and personal connections!

Saturday Apr 20, 2024
Saturday Apr 20, 2024
In this episode, we dive into a live coaching session where I answer your dating questions. We discuss when to introduce a new partner to your close circle, explore date ideas, and cover how to ensure safety when dating. Tune in for advice and tips to improve your dating experience.
Whether you're new to dating or looking to deepen a relationship, this episode offers practical insights for everyone.
Join us as we navigate modern dating using the No Kissing for 3 Months dating Rule.

Friday Apr 12, 2024
Why Setting and Reinforcing Your Boundaries Matters
Friday Apr 12, 2024
Friday Apr 12, 2024
In this episode, I conduct a live coaching session with a woman who has adopted my 'no kissing for 3 months' dating rule. Despite her commitment, she struggles with reinforcing boundaries and does things that are not aligned with her desire to pursue a long-term relationship.
Tune in to hear how we navigate these challenges together.
Listen now to discover the importance of strong boundaries in dating!"

Tuesday Apr 02, 2024
Heal Your Energy, ChangeYour Life
Tuesday Apr 02, 2024
Tuesday Apr 02, 2024
In this episode, we talk with Diane about her work as an energy healer. She explains what she does for people and how she helps change their lives by addressing trauma, depression, and other difficult challenges through energy healing.
We also discuss different archetypes and tools you can use to improve your inner and outer world as a spiritual being.
Tune in to learn more about energy healing and how it might help you.