My Dating And Relationship Podcast With Chantal Heide - Canada's Dating Coach

Th Truth About Boredom in Long-term Relationships

 

In this episode, I invited Kristen Thomas, a Clinical Sex Therapist and Relationship Coach, to discuss the recent cheating scandal involving David Grohl, the frontman of Foo Fighters, who was considered a faithful husband for 20 years until revelations surfaced about him having a child with another woman.

We dive into the statistics surrounding boredom and cheating in long-term relationships, exploring how men and women experience these issues differently. Christine shares insights on how intimacy plays a crucial role in maintaining a healthy relationship over time and preventing disconnection.

Tune in as we unpack the complexities of infidelity, the dynamics of long-term relationships, and practical ways to keep intimacy alive.

How to Stop Falling for Abusers and Stop Dating Out of Fear

In this episode, I sit down with Veronica Wang, a popular Mukbang YouTuber, to dive into her journey with relationships, fear of intimacy, and how past experiences have shaped her approach to dating.

 

We explore how kissing and sex can create emotional bonds that sometimes lead to toxic relationships and share strategies on how to protect yourself from falling for the wrong person. Join us as we discuss overcoming fears, setting healthy boundaries, and finding the right partner.

 

Deconstructing Religion, Purity Culture & Gender Expectations to Strengthen Your Relationship

In this episode, I talk to a couple who grew up in a Christian background and were indoctrinated to believe that exploring their bodies before marriage was wrong.

 

These beliefs shaped their views on sexuality and impacted their relationship. They also held strong gender role beliefs, which led to further challenges in their partnership. The couple shares their journey of deconstructing these long-held beliefs and how they've rebuilt their relationship, emerging as a stronger, more connected couple today.

 

Traditional Views or Logic?

In this episode, I chat with a guest who joined my TikTok live and asked if my dating and relationship rules are based on traditional views.

 

We discuss how these rules are rooted in logic and the importance of taking control of our own actions and choices. Whether you’re navigating the dating scene or in a relationship, this conversation sheds light on why it’s crucial to set standards that are practical and self-empowering rather than relying on outdated norms. Tune in for a fresh perspective on relationships that’s all about self-awareness and logic.

What You Need to Know Before You Start Dating

In this episode, I chatted with a woman who joined me on my TikTok Live and shared her inspiring journey of breaking free from an abusive relationship.

After following my content for a while, she found the strength to leave her toxic ex. Now, she’s ready to take the next steps and wonders how she can prepare herself for a healthy and fulfilling dating experience.

We discuss key insights and actionable tips to help anyone who’s been through a tough breakup get ready to re-enter the dating world with confidence and clarity.

Red Flags to Watch Out For on a First Date

These Insecure Guys Love to Make Your Past About Them

Why Caring About One's Body Count Reeks of Insecurity

Why You Should NOT Save Yourself for Marriage

 

 

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In this short podcast episode, I am joined by a special guest who shared her powerful story during a TikTok live session. She opens up about how she was brainwashed into believing she should preserve her body solely for her future husband, a notion that stripped away her autonomy and self-worth.

Together, we delve into her journey of realization and empowerment as she breaks free from these limiting beliefs and reclaims her body and voice.

Join us for a conversation about autonomy, self-discovery, and the importance of owning your narrative.

When Guys Come In To Argue About Women's Autonomy Over Our Bodies

In this episode, we tackle a recurring and heated topic: the unsolicited opinions of some guys about women's autonomy over our bodies.

 

Join us as we discuss a recent live session where a male participant insisted that women should be held accountable for their body count. We delve into the underlying issues of control, insecurity, and double standards that fuel such arguments. Our conversation highlights the importance of bodily autonomy, the right to make personal choices without judgment, and the necessity of rejecting outdated, oppressive views.

 

Tune in to hear empowering responses and insightful discussions on maintaining our self-worth and dignity in the face of criticism.

Dating Tips for All Genders

In this episode, I talk to a member of the LGBTQ+ community who joined my TikTok live to discuss some of my most popular dating strategies. We dive into their curiosity about the "No Kissing for 3 Months" rule, explore the concept of a "No Fight" relationship, and debunk the myth that body count matters. I also share how my dating strategies are designed to be inclusive and effective for all genders. Tune in for an engaging conversation that challenges traditional dating norms and offers fresh perspectives for everyone.

An Entitled Guy Gets Cooked for Arguing Why Body Count Matters.

A guy joined my TikTok live and kept yapping about why body count matters. He tried to change my mind, but I stood firm, explaining how women have autonomy over our own bodies and shouldn't be controlled by societal indoctrination or his insecurities.

 

Tune in as I challenge his views and advocate for women's empowerment and freedom.

 

This is a conversation you don't want to miss!

Why You Find It Hard To Stick to The Three-Month No Kissing Rule

How to Find Out If They're Right For You Before Comitting

We Don't Find A Long-term Partner The Same Way We Hook Up

I explore a listener's dilemma about whether she should hook up with a guy who seems like he can't keep it in his pants and doesn't align with what she wants long-term.

 

Join me as I discuss the importance of knowing your desires, assessing the risks, and making informed decisions when faced with such tempting yet complicated situations. 

Meaningless Exclusivity

In this podcast episode, I sit down with a man intrigued by the "No Kissing for 3 Months" dating rule but puzzled about the no exclusivity aspect. He expresses concern that by not going exclusive, he might miss out if the woman chooses someone else before he gets a chance. I take this opportunity to clarify the process, emphasizing the importance of not giving exclusivity out of insecurity. We delve into why a thorough vetting period is crucial for building a solid foundation in relationships.

 

I also recommend he check out my book, "The Perfect Play," the ultimate dating guide for men. Join us for an enlightening discussion that sheds light on mindful dating strategies and the value of patience.

How Do You Achieve A Zero-fight Relationship?

Listen in as we discuss the possibility of a zero-fight relationship in this episode. We explore personal responsibility for thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, drawing insights from my book Fix That Shit. Discover practical strategies for healthier relationships.

 

How Choosing The Right Partner and Healthy Behaviors Can Facilitate Healing

In this podcast episode, I talk with a man who shares his experience of domestic violence. He discusses using a rage room to manage his anger. We discuss choosing supportive partners and healthy coping mechanisms. I recommended he and his partner grab my book 'Fix That Shit,' which teaches healthy communication tools.

Finding Loyalty and Security in Relationship

This episode features a discussion about the 'no kissing for 3 months' rule and maintaining non-exclusivity during this period to vet potential partners effectively.

The focus is on how these strategies help in assessing loyalty and establishing security in a relationship. For more insightful episodes, subscribe to our podcast

 

 

 

 

Don't Start Dating Until You Understand These Things

During a TikTok live session, I chat with a guy interested in the journey of self-discovery before entering the dating world.

We explore why it’s essential to understand yourself and know what you want before starting a relationship.

We also discuss why a person's 'body count' shouldn't influence your view of them and the benefits of the 'no kissing for three months' dating rule.

Tune in for a conversation that might reshape your approach to dating and personal connections!

Live Coaching Session: When To Introduce Them To Your Close Circle, Date Ideas, and Ensuring Safety When Dating

In this episode, we dive into a live coaching session where I answer your dating questions. We discuss when to introduce a new partner to your close circle, explore date ideas, and cover how to ensure safety when dating. Tune in for advice and tips to improve your dating experience.

 

Whether you're new to dating or looking to deepen a relationship, this episode offers practical insights for everyone.

 

Join us as we navigate modern dating using the No Kissing for 3 Months dating Rule.

Why Setting and Reinforcing Your Boundaries Matters

In this episode, I conduct a live coaching session with a woman who has adopted my 'no kissing for 3 months' dating rule. Despite her commitment, she struggles with reinforcing boundaries and does things that are not aligned with her desire to pursue a long-term relationship.

Tune in to hear how we navigate these challenges together.

Listen now to discover the importance of strong boundaries in dating!"

Heal Your Energy, ChangeYour Life

In this episode, we talk with Diane about her work as an energy healer. She explains what she does for people and how she helps change their lives by addressing trauma, depression, and other difficult challenges through energy healing.

We also discuss different archetypes and tools you can use to improve your inner and outer world as a spiritual being.

 

Tune in to learn more about energy healing and how it might help you.

Chatting with Derek Gerard of That Library Show (Dating Tips for Men and Women)

Hey everyone! In this episode, I'm hanging out with Derek Gerard, the guy behind the popular YouTube channel 'That Library Show.' We're getting into some real talk about dating for both men and women. I shared my 'No Kissing for 3 Months' dating rule, a way to assess if someone's right for you before you commit.

We also tackled that big question: does size matter when it comes to intimacy? It's a candid discussion about myths, truths, and what really makes a difference in making connections and keeping things interesting.

Discussing Polyvagal Theory with Melissa

In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the world of relationships, nervous system dynamics, and the impact of societal structures with the insightful Melissa Petlichkov. Melissa, a registered social worker and practicing psychotherapist, brings her extensive knowledge and compassionate approach to our discussion, offering a unique perspective on how we form and maintain relationships.

Key Points Discussed:

1. Understanding Polyvagal Theory: Melissa breaks down the complex concepts of Polyvagal Theory, explaining how our nervous system plays a crucial role in how we connect with others and perceive safety in our relationships.

2. Impact of Patriarchy on Relationship Choices: We explore the profound effects of patriarchal influences on women's ability to choose partners. Melissa provides an in-depth analysis of how societal norms and expectations can skew our natural mate selection processes.

3. Recognizing Nervous System Responses in Mate Selection: Learn how to identify the subtle cues our bodies give us during the process of choosing a partner. Melissa shares her insights on how being in tune with our nervous system can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

4. Empowerment Through Self-Witnessing: Melissa emphasizes the importance of self-witnessing and capacity building from the inside out. She discusses how this approach can empower individuals in their journey towards self-discovery and better relationship choices.

5. Collaborative Therapeutic Process: Discover Melissa's collaborative approach in therapy, which focuses on unlocking each individual's potential and guiding them through their unique healing path.

Melissa's Background: With a Bachelor’s degree in Social Work from Ryerson University and a Master’s of Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University, Melissa's approach is grounded in academic knowledge and enriched by her empathetic and compassionate understanding of the human experience.

Connect with Melissa: For those interested in exploring these topics further or seeking guidance, you can connect with Melissa through her website https://soulwarriors.ca/

Closing Thoughts: This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of how our internal processes influence our relationships and how we can navigate these complexities for more meaningful connections. Join us as we uncover the secrets to healthier relationships through the lens of Polyvagal Theory and beyond.

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Achieving A Healthy and Fight-Free Relationship

Ever wondered how to build a healthy, conflict-free relationship where understanding overcomes resentment? In my latest podcast episode, I dive into this topic with Steven, a guest from my live session, who shares his insights on dealing with a partner's insecurities. Don't miss out - subscribe for new episodes and join me live on TikTok, Monday to Friday, 10 AM to 12 noon.

How Did These Two Men’s Relationships Evolve After My 3-Month No-Kissing Method?

Check out this snippet from my TikTok live where a man shares his experience with the 'No Kissing for 3 Months' rule. He talks about how this approach helped him find a great relationship by focusing on getting to know each other first, without the distraction of physical intimacy. Listen to his story of how patience, impulse control, and knowing yourself and what you deserve led to finding a true connection.

HowTo Resist Your Impulses and Create a Strong Foundation for a Relatrionship

In this 11th episode of our coaching series, join us as we delve into Holly's evolving love life. After meeting someone who truly resonates with her, Holly's journey took an unexpected turn. The couple briefly parted ways due to disagreements over the "no kissing for three months" rule, a guideline Holly has been adhering to for better relationship vetting.

However, the story takes a hopeful twist when the man re-enters her life, offering an apology and reigniting the potential of their connection. Despite feeling a strong urge to break the three-month rule, Holly remains committed to developing stronger self-control and character.

In this session, we explore the tools and strategies I've been teaching Holly to help her resist these impulses. We also reflect on the transformative impact these practices have had on her life, offering insights and inspiration for anyone navigating the complex world of modern dating.

Don't forget to subscribe to our podcast for more updates on Holly's journey and practical advice on building stronger, more meaningful relationships.

How to Find Your Best Relationship Ever

In this episode, I delve into an inspiring conversation with my lovely guest, Nene. Nene's unique journey through the world of dating unveils a refreshing perspective on building strong foundations for long-lasting relationships.

Nene shares her experience of encountering the "No Kissing Rule," a concept introduced by the man she was dating when she expressed her desire to take things slow. This rule, rooted in the principles advocated in  my book, "No More Assholes," offers invaluable insights into the art of vetting potential partners and fostering healthy connections without rushing into physical intimacy.

Throughout the episode, I and Nene discuss the importance of setting boundaries and respecting one another's pace in the dating world. We explore how embracing the "No Kissing Rule" can be a game-changer in cultivating meaningful, long-term relationships.

Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the strategies and mindset shifts necessary for establishing a solid emotional foundation with your significant other. Whether you're new to dating or a seasoned pro, this episode promises to empower you with tools to create lasting love and connections that stand the test of time.

Subscribe, listen, and start building your best relationships ever!

The Secret To A Fight Free Relationship

I recently had a fascinating conversation with Tyler Kepp, who crossed paths with one of my TikTok live sessions. What's even more intriguing is how Tyler's journey unfolded after he decided to pick up my book, Fix That Shit for Men, and put into action the practical advice I shared during my live streams, all in pursuit of a harmonious relationship.

During our chat, Tyler and I delved into his transformation, which all started with that serendipitous discovery on social media. His decision to embrace the principles I discussed in those live sessions triggered powerful changes. Together, we unravel the layers of self-discovery, emotional responsibility, and effective communication that played a pivotal role in his journey.

Tyler's story is a testament to facing emotions and taking ownership of feelings. With the guidance he found in my book and through our conversation, Tyler and his wife embarked on a shared path of understanding, resulting in a relationship that not only sheds needless conflicts but also radiates renewed happiness.

As Tyler opens up about his journey, you'll gain insights into fostering healthier communication and personal growth. What's even more heartwarming is their transformation's positive impact on their children and the overall harmony of their home.

Join Tyler and me in this episode of My Dating and Relationship Podcast, where we unlock the secret to nurturing a relationship free from constant fights. We'll explore the incredible power of self-awareness and emotional responsibility and how these factors can genuinely reshape the love and unity within a family.

And hey, if you enjoy this episode, I'd love for you to share your thoughts by leaving a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable as I continue to bring you insights and wisdom for cultivating fulfilling relationships.