My Dating And Relationship Podcast With Chantal Heide - Canada's Dating Coach

Chatting with Derek Gerard of That Library Show (Dating Tips for Men and Women)

Hey everyone! In this episode, I'm hanging out with Derek Gerard, the guy behind the popular YouTube channel 'That Library Show.' We're getting into some real talk about dating for both men and women. I shared my 'No Kissing for 3 Months' dating rule, a way to assess if someone's right for you before you commit.

We also tackled that big question: does size matter when it comes to intimacy? It's a candid discussion about myths, truths, and what really makes a difference in making connections and keeping things interesting.

Discussing Polyvagal Theory with Melissa

In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the world of relationships, nervous system dynamics, and the impact of societal structures with the insightful Melissa Petlichkov. Melissa, a registered social worker and practicing psychotherapist, brings her extensive knowledge and compassionate approach to our discussion, offering a unique perspective on how we form and maintain relationships.

Key Points Discussed:

1. Understanding Polyvagal Theory: Melissa breaks down the complex concepts of Polyvagal Theory, explaining how our nervous system plays a crucial role in how we connect with others and perceive safety in our relationships.

2. Impact of Patriarchy on Relationship Choices: We explore the profound effects of patriarchal influences on women's ability to choose partners. Melissa provides an in-depth analysis of how societal norms and expectations can skew our natural mate selection processes.

3. Recognizing Nervous System Responses in Mate Selection: Learn how to identify the subtle cues our bodies give us during the process of choosing a partner. Melissa shares her insights on how being in tune with our nervous system can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

4. Empowerment Through Self-Witnessing: Melissa emphasizes the importance of self-witnessing and capacity building from the inside out. She discusses how this approach can empower individuals in their journey towards self-discovery and better relationship choices.

5. Collaborative Therapeutic Process: Discover Melissa's collaborative approach in therapy, which focuses on unlocking each individual's potential and guiding them through their unique healing path.

Melissa's Background: With a Bachelor’s degree in Social Work from Ryerson University and a Master’s of Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University, Melissa's approach is grounded in academic knowledge and enriched by her empathetic and compassionate understanding of the human experience.

Connect with Melissa: For those interested in exploring these topics further or seeking guidance, you can connect with Melissa through her website https://soulwarriors.ca/

Closing Thoughts: This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of how our internal processes influence our relationships and how we can navigate these complexities for more meaningful connections. Join us as we uncover the secrets to healthier relationships through the lens of Polyvagal Theory and beyond.

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Achieving A Healthy and Fight-Free Relationship

Ever wondered how to build a healthy, conflict-free relationship where understanding overcomes resentment? In my latest podcast episode, I dive into this topic with Steven, a guest from my live session, who shares his insights on dealing with a partner's insecurities. Don't miss out - subscribe for new episodes and join me live on TikTok, Monday to Friday, 10 AM to 12 noon.

How Did These Two Men’s Relationships Evolve After My 3-Month No-Kissing Method?

Check out this snippet from my TikTok live where a man shares his experience with the 'No Kissing for 3 Months' rule. He talks about how this approach helped him find a great relationship by focusing on getting to know each other first, without the distraction of physical intimacy. Listen to his story of how patience, impulse control, and knowing yourself and what you deserve led to finding a true connection.

HowTo Resist Your Impulses and Create a Strong Foundation for a Relatrionship

In this 11th episode of our coaching series, join us as we delve into Holly's evolving love life. After meeting someone who truly resonates with her, Holly's journey took an unexpected turn. The couple briefly parted ways due to disagreements over the "no kissing for three months" rule, a guideline Holly has been adhering to for better relationship vetting.

However, the story takes a hopeful twist when the man re-enters her life, offering an apology and reigniting the potential of their connection. Despite feeling a strong urge to break the three-month rule, Holly remains committed to developing stronger self-control and character.

In this session, we explore the tools and strategies I've been teaching Holly to help her resist these impulses. We also reflect on the transformative impact these practices have had on her life, offering insights and inspiration for anyone navigating the complex world of modern dating.

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How to Find Your Best Relationship Ever

In this episode, I delve into an inspiring conversation with my lovely guest, Nene. Nene's unique journey through the world of dating unveils a refreshing perspective on building strong foundations for long-lasting relationships.

Nene shares her experience of encountering the "No Kissing Rule," a concept introduced by the man she was dating when she expressed her desire to take things slow. This rule, rooted in the principles advocated in  my book, "No More Assholes," offers invaluable insights into the art of vetting potential partners and fostering healthy connections without rushing into physical intimacy.

Throughout the episode, I and Nene discuss the importance of setting boundaries and respecting one another's pace in the dating world. We explore how embracing the "No Kissing Rule" can be a game-changer in cultivating meaningful, long-term relationships.

Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the strategies and mindset shifts necessary for establishing a solid emotional foundation with your significant other. Whether you're new to dating or a seasoned pro, this episode promises to empower you with tools to create lasting love and connections that stand the test of time.

Subscribe, listen, and start building your best relationships ever!

The Secret To A Fight Free Relationship

I recently had a fascinating conversation with Tyler Kepp, who crossed paths with one of my TikTok live sessions. What's even more intriguing is how Tyler's journey unfolded after he decided to pick up my book, Fix That Shit for Men, and put into action the practical advice I shared during my live streams, all in pursuit of a harmonious relationship.

During our chat, Tyler and I delved into his transformation, which all started with that serendipitous discovery on social media. His decision to embrace the principles I discussed in those live sessions triggered powerful changes. Together, we unravel the layers of self-discovery, emotional responsibility, and effective communication that played a pivotal role in his journey.

Tyler's story is a testament to facing emotions and taking ownership of feelings. With the guidance he found in my book and through our conversation, Tyler and his wife embarked on a shared path of understanding, resulting in a relationship that not only sheds needless conflicts but also radiates renewed happiness.

As Tyler opens up about his journey, you'll gain insights into fostering healthier communication and personal growth. What's even more heartwarming is their transformation's positive impact on their children and the overall harmony of their home.

Join Tyler and me in this episode of My Dating and Relationship Podcast, where we unlock the secret to nurturing a relationship free from constant fights. We'll explore the incredible power of self-awareness and emotional responsibility and how these factors can genuinely reshape the love and unity within a family.

And hey, if you enjoy this episode, I'd love for you to share your thoughts by leaving a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable as I continue to bring you insights and wisdom for cultivating fulfilling relationships.

How We Can Change the World Through Our Dating Choices

Join me in this episode, where I sit down with a special guest Carly, a passionate dating coach and dedicated follower of our message. Carly stumbled upon one of my content and resonated deeply with the "No Kissing for 3 Months" dating rule and the importance of setting boundaries in today's fast-paced dating world.

We dive into a candid conversation about finding one's authentic voice and building confidence, a journey that Carly and I have embraced. 

We shed light on the challenges modern dating culture poses, often tainted by misconceptions and misguided advice from pick-up artists.

Carly and I shared our insights into the common experiences many women face due to these influences and how it has shaped their dating journeys.

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How To Stand Up For Yourself and Claim Your Power Back

In my 10th real dating coaching session with Holly, we talked about her encounter with a man who turned out to be a predator during one of her dates. The harassment and vulnerability she experienced were both shocking and saddening.

As a dating and relationship coach, it's my mission to empower women to take charge of their love lives, so we addressed the societal conditioning that often makes us feel like prey in the dating world. Holly and I delved into how cultural norms have played a role in women tolerating inappropriate behavior and how it's time to break free from this pattern.

Empowerment was the central theme of our conversation, and we explored practical ways to manage the dating environment effectively. From setting clear boundaries to communicating openly about our expectations, these strategies can transform our dating experiences into safe and enjoyable journeys.

We talked about the "No Kissing for 3 Months" dating rule and how tthis approach allows women to set the pace and take the time to get to know their potential partners on a deeper level before introducing physical intimacy.

Holly's journey of self-discovery resonated with me, and I'm thrilled that she's determined to approach future dating encounters with a newfound sense of self-worth and boundary-setting.

In this episode, we challenge outdated norms and share practical advice to help women like Holly and me transform from prey to protectors of our hearts. It's time to prioritize our safety and happiness in the dating world.

So, join me and Holly on this episode as we empower ourselves and women everywhere to embrace a new dating approach, fearlessly taking control of our love journeys.

 

Remember, you are the heroine of your love story!

 

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How To Get Everything You WantIn Life

Exploring Thoughts and Manifestation with Giselle Baumet

Join us as we delve into the fascinating connection between thoughts and manifestation. Our special guest, Giselle Baumet, a Happiness and Manifestation Educator and Coach, shares her invaluable insights on this topic.

In this conversation, Giselle guides us through the relationship between our thoughts and the reality we create. We also talked about common obstacles that hinder our ability to manifest our desires and provide practical strategies to overcome them.

 

Prepare to be inspired as Giselle reminds us of our innate power to create the life we truly desire. Whether you're new to manifestation or seeking to deepen your practice, this episode offers tools and insights to tap into your true potential.

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How to Stay Grounded During the Honeymoon Phase of Dating

In this 9th Real Dating Coaching with Holly, she shared the exciting details of giving an average guy, whom she initially didn't find attractive, another chance. Through this experience, Holly discovers the power of personality and how it can change our perceptions of physical attractiveness.

As Holly recounts her dates and conversations, she unveils the surprising qualities that won her over—kindness, humor, and genuine care. 

I also gave her practical advice for Holly and for the listeners who might be embarking on new relationships. I talk about maintaining an open mind, nurturing personal interests, and communicating openly with a partner. By staying connected to reality and not letting emotions overshadow judgment, I encouraged Holly to create a strong foundation for a healthy, lasting connection by sticking to the No Kissing for 3 Months Dating Rule.

Don't miss this episode filled with personal anecdotes, valuable insights, and actionable tips for finding love and maintaining a balanced perspective.

 

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What Makes Men More Attractive to Women?

Welcome back to our podcast about relationships and personal growth. Today, I want to share with you the insights I gained from my coaching session with Holly. We had a fun and funny conversation about her experiences with men she's gone out on dates with, and we talked about what makes men more attractive or repellant to women.

Holly shared with me some stories about the different men she's dated recently. We had a good laugh about some of the awkward moments, but we also talked about some of the positive experiences she's had. Through her experiences, you can learn about the qualities of men that make them attractive to most women.

On the flip side, we also talked about the traits that repel women.

 

Holly shared some stories about men who have tried too hard to impress her, or who have forced physical connection. These behaviors can be a major turn-off. We also discussed the importance of respecting boundaries and avoiding being too touchy on the first few dates.

 

I hope this episode was helpful to anyone out there navigating the world of dating.

 

Thanks for tuning in, and until next time!

How to Navigate Online Dating Like a Pro: 7th Real Dating Coaching with Holly

Welcome to another episode of My Dating and Relationship podcast. Today, I'm excited to have Holly back for our seventh session together. Over the past few sessions, we've been working on helping Holly improve how she navigates dating, and today she's here to share her experience with our listeners.

During our session, Holly shared how she's feeling more empowered in her dating life, and it's all thanks to the No Kissing for 3 Months Dating Rule advice I've given her and everything she learned from my book No More Assholes.

 

We discussed how implementing the rule has made a huge difference in her dating approach.

Holly mentioned that she no longer feels pressured to be physically intimate early on, which has allowed her to make more objective decisions about her dates.

We also worked on Holly's dating profile, and I helped her select photos that truly represent her and her interests. We talked about how important it is to showcase your personality in your dating profile, as it helps attract like-minded individuals. Holly was thrilled about the new profile and was excited about the potential matches that may come her way.

During our coaching session, we also talked about how to evaluate potential partners, and how important it is to look beyond just physical attraction. We discussed the importance of finding someone with similar values and interests, and how this can lead to a more meaningful relationship.

I'm proud of the significant progress Holly has made in her dating journey, and I'm thrilled to see her feeling more confident and empowered. I'm looking forward to continuing our sessions and helping her find the partner she's looking for.

 

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6th Real Dating Coaching with Holly - She Met Someone!

In this episode of our dating coaching series, we catch up with Holly and she spills the tea on her new man! She used the techniques from my book "No More Assholes" to get the man to approach her, and it worked wonders!

The new man in her life seems a little frustrated with her "No Kissing for 3 Months Dating Rule" but he's open to trying it out and getting to know her better. Holly admits that she's super tempted to kiss him, but she's trying to stay strong and focus on vetting him properly before taking things to the next level.

During our coaching session, we talked about the importance of impulse control and how it can help Holly to make better decisions when it comes to dating. I gave her some practical tips on how to control her impulses and make sure she's making wise decisions.

This episode is super juicy and full of great advice for anyone who's navigating the dating world. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting out, you'll definitely want to tune in and hear what we talked about!

 

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What to Look for in a Long-term Partner?

In this episode, I had an insightful conversation with my friend Melissa Petlichkov, a registered social worker and practicing psychotherapist who believes in collaboration throughout the course of the therapeutic process.

We talked about the traits to look for in a partner, how our dating culture has been dumbed down into physicality, falling in love with potential, and how we can find partners who truly suit us.

 

You can check out Melissa's website for her services:

www.soulwarriors.ca and follow her instagram account @to_mel___ 

 

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The AI Advantage: Transforming Your Business and Dating Life

In this episode, we sit down with Caleb Roberts, a Marketing Consultant who has harnessed the power of AI to optimize his work and personal life. Caleb shares his experience of implementing AI in his daily routine, from automating tasks at work to managing his personal finances and even finding new recipes to try in the kitchen.

We also delve into the topic of Chat GPT, a language model that can provide practical advice and insights for everyday life questions. Caleb shares his experience of using Chat GPT to tackle challenges and find solutions to complex problems, and we discuss the potential of AI to revolutionize the way we approach problem-solving and decision-making.

Listeners will come away from this episode with a better understanding of the potential of AI to enhance productivity and efficiency in both work and personal life, as well as practical strategies for implementing AI in their own daily routines.

If you're curious about the power of AI and how it can improve your life, be sure to tune in to this episode with Caleb Roberts.

Fourth Real Dating Coaching Session with Holly

In this episode of Real Dating Coaching with Holly, she shares how her dating journey has helped her build confidence and realize that she doesn't have to settle for less than she deserves. Holly has learned to prioritize her own needs and desires in a relationship, and she's now feeling empowered to pursue what she truly wants.

We also discuss the importance of an abundance mindset in dating. By shifting one's focus from scarcity and limitation to abundance and possibility, one can open themselves up to new experiences and potential partners that they may have otherwise overlooked.

If you're ready to take control of your dating journey and pursue the love and connection you deserve, be sure to check these real dating series with Holly!

Third Session : Real Dating Coaching with Holly

In this episode, Holly joins me to talk about her non-negotiables and the traits she wants in a man. She shares how she's learned to recognize the importance of her own values and what she needs in a relationship, thanks to her experience with No More Assholes.

Holly opens up about how she used to settle for men who didn't meet her standards, but she's since learned to prioritize her own happiness and well-being. She discusses the qualities she's looking for in a partner, including honesty, kindness, and a strong work ethic.

We also discuss how No More Assholes has helped her and other women feel empowered to make choices that align with their values and needs. 

Overall, our conversation highlights the importance of knowing and prioritizing your own non-negotiables, as well as the value of resources like No More Assholes in helping women make informed and empowered choices in their dating lives.

Second Real Dting Coaching with Holly

In this episode of Real Dating Coaching with Hope with Holly, we dive into the topic of sexual compatibility during the No Kissing for 3 Months dating rule. Holly shares her concerns about how waiting three months to kiss someone might impact the development of sexual chemistry, and I offer my expert insights on the matter.

Through honest and open dialogue, we explore how sexual compatibility can be a vital component of a healthy and fulfilling relationship and discuss the importance of clear communication and setting boundaries when it comes to exploring intimacy with a partner.

I also share tips on how to gauge sexual compatibility without necessarily engaging in physical intimacy. I encouraged Holly and listeners to focus on building emotional connections and getting to know each other on a deeper level, rather than solely relying on physical attraction.

If you're curious about the No Kissing for 3 Months dating rule and want to learn more about navigating sexual compatibility in a healthy and empowering way, be sure to tune in to this episode of Real Dating Coaching with Hope with Holly.

 

 

Real Dating Coaching with Hope with Holly (First Session)

In this episode of Real Dating Coaching with Hope with Holly, listeners will be taken on a journey with Holly as she navigates the world of dating and relationships with my help. Through open and honest conversations, Holly learns to get to know herself better, empowers herself with the No Kissing for 3 Months dating rule, and gains invaluable insights from my book, "No More Assholes."

Listeners will be able to witness firsthand the transformation Holly undergoes as she gains confidence and learns to set boundaries in her relationships. 

 

Why Vetting is Important in the Dating Process!

I talk to Dr. Taylor Burrowes about vetting!

Higher Consciousness Meditation by Rich Pendlebury

Higher Consciousness Meditation by Rich Pendlebury

 

Sink into this Pineal Gland awakening meditation by Rich Pendlebury! 

HealingTrauma & Finding LOVE! With Melanie Hamlet

HealingTrauma & Finding LOVE! With Melanie Hamlet

Meet Melanie Hamlett! She's a comedian, journalist, writing coach, has been published in WaPo, Harper's Bazaar, Glamour, Slate, HuffPost, The Guardian, Daily Beast, Cosmo, Playboy (and more!), and has led an extremely rich life. I'm excited to share her story with you because as amazing as she is, she's also US. Making the most common relationship mistakes for the most common of reasons, Melanie has realized there's more to lasting love than the subpar attention we'll get from selfish, short term thinkers. Watch her REAL success story here! You can find her on Instagram @melhamlett TikTok & Twitter @melaniehamlett

Yikes...This Was Hard To Listen To | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 8

Yikes...This Was Hard To Listen To

Be prepared to CRINGE!! Welcome back to the series where I interact with GUYS on my TikTok livestreams. Ladies, do yourselves a favour and use the No Kissing For 3 Months Dating Rule so that you don't end up with guys like this...yikes. 

I Leave These Men Too Stunned To Speak... | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 7

I Leave These Men Too Stunned To Speak...

This was an extremely fun lighthearted debate with two great people! They questioned my methods, and you'll be surprised by their reaction! 

Debating With Yet ANOTHER GUY *eye roll* | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 6

Debating With Yet ANOTHER GUY *eye roll*

Welcome back to talking with GUYS. (Be prepared to roll your eyes!) Remember Ladies, these are the GUYS you will avoid when you use the No Kissing For 3 Months Dating Rule. You will dodge so many bullets this way!!

Listen to a LIVE COACHING SESSION! | TikTok Live Guests! Ep.5

Listen to a LIVE COACHING SESSION!

I give a mini LIVE coaching session! Come and get some insight, and who knows, her situation may resonate with you! 

A Woman Used My No Kissing For 3 Months Rule And Here’s What Happened... | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 4

A Woman Used My No Kissing For 3 Months Rule And Here’s What Happened...

I talk with a lovely lady about her experiences using the No Kissing For 3 Months Dating Rule. If you're on the fence about using this rule, this will be the boost you need to jump down to the right side! 

The GUYS Keep Getting Worse... | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 3

The GUYS Keep Getting Worse...

Yep...we talk to another GUY. Maybe I should start a series for this...hmmm. If you want to get an idea about what kind of GUYS you will avoid using the No Kissing For 3 Months Dating Rule, then let this be your eye-opener. 

Transitioning & Dating + Coming Back To Life 3 Times?! | TikTok Live Guests! Ep. 2

Transitioning & Dating + Coming Back To Life 3 Times?!

Meet Nick! Come & listen to his incredible stories and experiences, from transitioning from female to male, all the way to experiencing death (3 times!). Want to find out what it's like on the other side of life? Nick will completely change your perspective, you might want to grab some tissues!